Happiness is a choice!

SmiLE and bE NiCe

Divorce is a hard thing, for those of us that end up going through it, it can be one of the most life changing challenges we will ever have in our family.

I was married to my first husband for almost 25 years. There were good times and then obviously bad, because we are divorced. The decision to divorce changes the lives of more people than just the married couple. It changes lives for generations to come. My grandchildren feel the strain and they weren’t even around when the divorce happened. They have nothing to do with it.

The immediate children suffer the most. It is so hard for them, and yet they learn from divorce also. My prayer for my children is that their marriages will be stronger from it. I pray that they will be kinder, more understanding and willing to be nicer, keep things even, and just be friends. The biggest thing is to smile, even the grandmas! This little girl can tell you all about it.

 

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